There is a reason we look at someone’s eyes when we are trying to understand what they really feel. A smile can be polite. A voice can be controlled. Words can be carefully selected, rehearsed, or even deliberately misleading. But the eyes seem to operate slightly closer to whatever is happening underneath. Fear can widen …
Have you ever noticed how much can happen in a conversation before anyone says a word? A brief glance across a room can spark curiosity. Looking into a friend’s eyes during a difficult conversation can create reassurance. A stranger’s stare can make us uncomfortable almost instantly. The same simple act of making eye contact can …